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You have high standards.

You work hard toward your ambitions.

You are proud of what you have accomplished in life so far…

…except with women.

And let’s face it (we’re both men here), no matter how much the other areas of life are under our control, if success with women eludes us… we feel weakened. Debilitated.

Not only that, but the lack of know-how and results in our “bedroom life” inevitably seeps over into “boardroom life”.
If you’re here, you’ve been invited by someone who wanted to share with you a secret about women. An empowering secret that most men will never know.

Here’s the secret: It IS possible to improve and become excellent with beautiful women.
It can be learned like any other skill.

It’s something any man can consciously develop and live – whether you were “born with it” or not. Regardless of financial status, or looks, or whatever other excuse 99% of guys use.

I now invite you to a complimentary personal consultation session with me.

Just select “Executive Phone Coaching” or “Live Immersion Training”, and fill out the necessary inquiry form so we can build a game plan for your unique situation.

To date, I’ve personally coached over 237 men – from all walks of life. From recent college grads, to high-profile New York City attorneys. There’s no excuses.

-Brian Burke

Dicarlo Drills

As head of the Dicarlo Coaching Drills Program for 5 years, I had students of all ages and backgrounds. I had military veterans, engineers, grad students, entrepreneurs, lawyers, doctors. Their ages ranged from early 20′s to early 50′s, but most guys were in their 30′s. The most common goal my students in the Drills Program at Dicarlo Coaching had was to play the field, sow their wild oats, and find a woman they could finally settle down with. And this requires going beyond game, seduction, pickup, and traditional courtship dating. (That’s why I named my blog “GoBeyondDating.com)” As head of the Vin Dicarlo Coaching Drills program for over 5 years, I strived to understand my students and become the best teacher I could be. One thing I had to do a lot was to de-program all the bad programming a student learned from seduction material, as well as conventional dating advice. I would start with the words he used. Here are some common words used when talking about meeting and dating women: Seduction – this means to entice someone to do something they should not. This is absolutely the worst mindset to have with a woman you want to sleep with. It implies deception and manipulation, to get something you don’t deserve, and will affect her negatively. Attraction – a vague, useless term that leads to the wrong mindset when meeting women. Game – creates an opposition-frame with women. You must have game to beat her, to win sex from her, despite her efforts to stop you. This is completely out of touch with reality. Women are not your...

Head of Vin Dicarlo Coaching

As head of the Dicarlo Coaching Drills Program for 5 years, I had students of all ages and backgrounds. I had military veterans, engineers, grad students, entrepreneurs, lawyers, doctors. Their ages ranged from early 20′s to early 50′s, but most guys were in their 30′s. The most common goal my students in the Drills Program at Dicarlo Coaching had was to play the field, sow their wild oats, and find a woman they could finally settle down with. And this requires going beyond game, seduction, pickup, and traditional courtship dating. (That’s why I named my blog “GoBeyondDating.com)” As head of the Vin Dicarlo Coaching Drills program for over 5 years, I strived to understand my students and become the best teacher I could be. One thing I had to do a lot was to de-program all the bad programming a student learned from seduction material, as well as conventional dating advice. I would start with the words he used. Here are some common words used when talking about meeting and dating women: Seduction – this means to entice someone to do something they should not. This is absolutely the worst mindset to have with a woman you want to sleep with. It implies deception and manipulation, to get something you don’t deserve, and will affect her negatively. Attraction – a vague, useless term that leads to the wrong mindset when meeting women. Game – creates an opposition-frame with women. You must have game to beat her, to win sex from her, despite her efforts to stop you. This is completely out of touch with reality. Women are not your...

Presense

A good portion of my clients are shorter than average. It’s no secret that women prefer taller men, but this does not have to stop you. I’ve taught many guys to pick up women taller than them! It all comes down to having a strong physical presence by adjusting your posture and body movement. There is a lot of advice out there about how to have confident body language, but most of it is vague, or simply wrong. Here’s what really works (and as always, this is field-tested by myself, and clients I’ve taught). Most guys move through the world accommodating everyone else. They don’t own their space, and move faster than is truly comfortable for them. Another major problem I see when guys approach women is their lack of effective eye contact. It’s rare to see a woman standing still, waiting for a man to approach her. At a bar or club, women stand in groups, flanked by friends, or blocked by the bar. During the day, women are either walking or sitting, making it difficult to walk right up to them. The problem with this is that the ideal way to approach a woman is by having her see you and lock eyes with you before you speak. In this article, I’ll teach you how to get a woman’s total attention – you become her entire world – without saying a word. There are four easy ways to make your presence felt, and get her to think, “Who is this guy???” Lead with your lower body. This is something you see with very sexual guys do, as...

Beyond Pandora’s Box

After Pandora’s Box was released, I got a lot of inquiries from guys who had studied the system and wanted to reach a level of mastery. The biggest problem I found guys were having after learning the system, was that they were getting stuck in the “Types” – trying to fit every woman into a type – a box – instead of learning about her as a unique individual. The Types weren’t meant to be a substitute for recognizing a woman’s individuality, but rather, to give guys a simple guide to get started exploring the female psyche. The 8 types are like training wheels. I personally never used the types when I met women. I thought more about the lines, and instead of guessing, I’d use a curious focus to find out how much of a Justifier or Denier a woman is, because as any psychology inventory will tell you, every one lies somewhere in the grey area of the gradient. What this means is, if you picture a 3Dimensional Box, and use the three axes or “lines” every woman will be plotted in a unique...

How To Approach The Most Beautiful Woman

How to Approach the Most Beautiful Women You’re walking down the street, minding your business, on the way home from work. You turn the corner, and boom! There she is, the woman of your dreams. Your jaw drops and your mind goes blank. You can’t believe she’s real. And just as fast as she came into your life, she’s gone. Your mind is racing for something to say. You turn around, and with a feeling of sadness, frustration, and regret, you see watch her disappear in the distance. Beautiful women are incredibly intimidating to ALL men, even guys who are rich, good-looking, or famous. Except for rare exceptions, most men have the tendency to get scared of beautiful women, instead of getting excited by them. This is due to a few misunderstandings when it comes to the most beautiful of women. Here are the biggest misunderstandings I see guys fall into, and have overcome in my personal life: Beautiful women have tons of options, with the best looking, successful men chasing after them. In fact, she’s probably already taken. Beautiful women are also very pure, good people, and extremely witty. Their personalities are equivalent to their looks. To attract beautiful women you must impress them. And the way to do this is by being funny, smart, confident, rich, and good-looking. Let’s look at these misunderstandings closer. First of all, the most attractive women rarely get approached. As you feel intimidated, so does every other guy, no matter how confident he is otherwise. When these women do get approached, the man is typically either: Crazy (he doesn’t experience social anxiety...

Dicarlo Coaching

Most guys want to enjoy a variety of women before they settle down. And when they do, they don’ want to, well…settle. Most guys want to find their dream girl, but only after they’ve experienced different women. Otherwise, you will feel that you have “missed out,” and possibly settled… because you didn’t have know-how to meet the women you REALLY wanted. These were two of the most common regrets of dying men: “I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.” “I wish I had gone after the hot girl.” Women are aware of The Game, now. The average guy knows at least SOME pickup artist techniques, and women have become paranoid and wary of “game.” The good news is, game is the hardest, least efficient way to sleep with hot women fast. The easiest way is without tricks or manipulation. But I don’t mean to say, “Just be yourself.” I’ll explain, but first I must break down the game-seduction paradigm, so you can see how you’ve been blinded and misguided. Running game, or pickup, is based on seduction, which itself is based on courtship, an archaic medievel tradition where talented commoners come to the noble court, and try to woo or “seduce” female members of the nobility. Let’s look at what “seduce” actually means. “se·duce: To lead away from duty, accepted principles, or proper conduct.” When you approach an attractive woman, you aren’t wooing an unmarried princess, trying to entice her to violate her vow of chastity before she is politically betrothed to some rich, land-owning Duke....